I did got engaged once (it was my fault that didn’t work, I behaved like a jerk…)

So some dude wrote me this yesterday:

My name is Jose [last name], I am single, and had never married, I did got engaged once (it was my fault that didn’t work, I behaved like a jerk…), I don’t have children (and I pray to God for the opportunity), I am muttering, caring, and can be very gently, and I have a slight wild side as well… but that is reserved for later if you pick me, and we made it that far

I am smart (sometimes I brag about it, but there are many men far smarter than me out there, and I can be annoying), I behave in silly ways sometimes, ok most of the time… like when I go around silly things like offering flowers, enjoyed poetry and making a fool of myself, even in public. I am a hopeless romantic… and I am a meek sometimes, I do wear my pride in my sleeve, I am sensitive to bad criticism from those I love the most.

I am most definitely not a Paul Hogan type of man, I learn my lesson after I got injured lifting and throwing Camp Victory’s generator over the top of a flat bed truck… yeah I know not very smart, I think that if God wanted me to be lifting things I would had been born with hydraulic jacks inside my legs and arms hehehe

I can drink alcohol, but I am not attracted to it, nor I like cigarretes, or tabacco products. I drink coffee, love donuts and chocolate cake even if I must hit the gym for six hours after eating it… I do like to keep myself fit, and toned, but I have a life… in the romantic arena I am a very physical guy, and I like showing affect no matter who is looking! I know scaring… I will even dance in public with no music for you hehehe

When it comes to chose the person with whom I may share the rest of my life and beyond, I believe there is no topic off the table, and only communication, and deep understanding of each other at every level: humor, intellectual, sexual, sensual, spiritual, emotional, and even religious ideology are important and must be explore, and share at the open in conversation… only when we truly understand someone love will set roots, and the relationship will move from simple infatuation from the initial lust, to grow into the life lasting pure love.

Love is all I need, and Love is what I have to offer, I don’t just hook up to get in your pants, I rather get to know you, by talking over the phone, email, or chat. share songs or talking about music and all the possible topics, going out and having a meal over casual conversation, and progress from there to holding hands if it feel appropriated etc… which is dating really, but to me dating never truly ends, and should continue into marriage, and beyond.

I am a bit in the shy side when I first meet anyone, but once I know more about you, you better keep the break at arms reach hehehe not much witty personality than that, that is my weakest point, but could become my strongest side, under the right circumstances

Oh… ough I wrote quite a bit, and don’t want to scare you away with a long message. if you find in your heart to reply and make of this a conversation, this is a great starting point, that will lead us to either Love, friendship, or maybe just a nice conversation that you may remember as “a chat with some crazy guy somewhere online” hey I got the better selection of genes, I am immune to the flu hehehe

I you may or may not have the ability to reply here, if that is so an alternative means to contact me is my eMail just drop me a line to “admin at cybertechie org uk “and I will surely read your message homegirl

Hmmm hasta pronto munequita… o eso espero.

Jose

I didn’t write back, and today I got this:

I am aware the initial sighting of me doesn’t exactly inspire the desire to initiate conversation, but there is much much more to me than what is in display.
Oh excuse my rude behavior! How are you? forgive me, if my introduction is quite dry, I have no excuse, I am not good at introductions. I am a well educated man, with a sometimes darky sense of humor, I am not the strongest, nor the smartest man in this planet, but I am without a doubt the man that need the less to enjoy life, and find the hidden beauty on nature. I am an Electrical Engineer, basically a short sale mix of a physicist, and a mathematician, with an alter ego that is way bigger than myself, and only a few get to meet. I know without a doubt that God exist, and this special knowledge give me the edge. when I open my eyes every morning, and became aware once more of the miracle of life. It doesn’t matter where every particle came from, or where is going the next, in the great scheme of things, matter became only relevant when there is a purpose to its existence… and so we are here.

I am single (not for lack of trying as much as lack of oportunities hehehe), I had never been married, I did got engaged once (it was my fault that didn’t work, I behaved like a jerk…but I had learned ever since), I don’t have children (but I pray to God for the opportunity), I am nurturing caring, and can be gentle (just don’t tell my Army guys that).

I would like very much to get to know you, if that pleased you, we could start with friendship, and allowing room to grow, God may bless us with much much more than we hope for. There is no right or wrong answer, I am here to knock at your gates, and upon answering my call, only you can decide if I may come in, or if I should move on to the next temple…

Jose
if you wish alternative contact information is available
email ” [email address] ” or if you feel brave enough to trust in this stranger my cell number [phone number]

Yeah…not so much.